Anonymous asked: Are you truscum? Anyone can be trans. Trans is a feel. I'm fucking glad not to be cis. Reject the gender binary. Reject oppression. Gender exists for the oppressor. I am trans. I have no dysphoria but I'm still trans.
what the hell, i have never heard that term in my life, i had to google it, but when i read the definition i was like ‘yeah i agree with that’. (EDIT/UPDATE: ive been informed now what the term actually means and i dont agree with it or care to associate myself with it.)
i dont think that being trans is a choice (however being publicly out as trans is for some) and even though anyone can be trans i mean that in a -people all of different sexualities, class backgrounds, cultures, nationalities, levels of education, occupations, ages etc can be trans - kinda way. i do think that there are factors that define someone as trans or are part of the trans experience.
i wish i was cis, but i not every trans person does and thats legit too.
i know many cis people who do reject the gender binary and who do not uphold societal gender norms and who actively reject oppression. i do understand trans peoples frustration with cis people, i often feel extremely misunderstood by the majority of cis people in my life and it effects how close i can be with friends or how much i can share about my personal feelings and experiences with others or how trusting i can be of others.
but at the end up the day i dont think cis people are the enemy or that they dont understand or believe in gender liberation.
i dont agree this whole “gender exists for the oppressor” thing…. dammit, you are totally a troll arnt you?!?!?! whatever anyway, i feel like that attitude is similar to when people think that androgynous cis women are more queer or genderfuck or progressive or radical or destroying gender norms than femme cis women which is total bulllllllshitttttt.
also gender is a real thing, if it wasnt than there wouldnt be trans people……. many awesome and amazing trans people have a gender and that gender is really important to them.
i do think that non binary people and their experiences are real and i also think that gender is real. the enemy is the state, fuck societies made up gender norms and gender roles, fuck the oppression of women, fuck the patriarchy, and fuck weirdo trolls on the internet.
ok lil update: i google it more about found out the word is said as tru-scum, i thought it was trus-cum, lol, anyone someone said that truscum believe thats people need to have surgery… i dont believe that cause 1. thats not in the best interest of some individuals lives, 2. its not an option for everyone, 3. people have all different types of dysphoria and surgury may not be the best solution 4. its none of my business if someone has or hasnt had surgery or if they will or wont. i was just saying that the urban dictionary definition made sense to me as it reflects my personal experience. honestly fuck all this weird internet lingo, it just sounds like people being haters or thinking that they are better than others.
another update: ok so people are telling me more about what truscum means. it does not sound at all like anything i would want to associate myself with or have on my blog. im just keeping this here for reference as now all these people think that i identify with truscum 1. ew 2. as if 3. seriously though…. it kinda seems like the opposite of everything i stand for, i feel like truscum people would hate me