what you wish you knew about sex and consent
hey ya’ll so me and bridgette and currently writing a few pages for the queer rock camp workbook and we were wondering what stuff you wish you had known about queer sex and consent either when you were a teenager or if you are a teen what stuff you would like to know more about or think your peers should know.
just comment on this post or you can write in to my “ask box”.
thanks!!!!!
<3
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gloryholebaby said:
It sounds kinda dumb but I didn’t realise until I was in my 20s that I could tell somebody that i didn’t like my breasts being touched. it seemed like “part of the deal” of hetero sex, to have a guy squeeze and rub my boobs while I sat there bored.
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i-xviii said:
its ok to talk. its not un-sexy. its ok to ask questions. accidents happen. sometimes you fall off the bed/couch/chair. its ok to laugh. its ok to be scared and say no based on that fear. sex doesnt equal love.
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disenfranchisedsequin said:
gah tried to reply twice and messed it up. *heading to ask box*
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brittanystrained reblogged this from girlsgetbusyzine and added:
i think a lot of people don’t realize that an intoxicated or drugged consent, is not consent (i know i certainly didn’t...
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lightningloved said:
so many things; not to worry about being “good” in bed, to not let the word “slut” bring me down, silence =/= consent… basic stuff like that i guess
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420angel666 said:
I’m goin to qrc! I kinda know a whole bunch about consent. A very important one is someone can always change their mind, and decide something is not right for them even if sexual stuff has already started. Test the break pedals by checkin in too!
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allmenarerapists said:
also, faking orgasms is futile, and doesnt really seem good for either party to me. thanks for doing this thats awesome!
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